Mom refuses to allow 13-year-old daughter to go to the movies with her friends without her: 'I don't just drop her off. I have to stay and watch.'

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  • Two girls sitting on a couch watching a movie

    Two middle-school-aged girls watch a movie at the movie theater without their mother's supervision.

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  • My daughter is 13 now and has started to ask to go places with her friends. Am I doing too much by not allowing her to go unless I’m there? I hate to be the strict mom.

    58 PM Heyyy Kailees mom I was wondering will Kailee be able to go to the movies with me tomorrow? 4:30 Hey what time Ok I'll see if I'm available to be there. I don't just drop her off. I have to stay to watch yall It's ok she doesn't have to go Read 3:20 PM If you did not expect this message from an unknown sender, it may be spam. Report Spam iMessage

  • Whole Blinkin Market @HighHeelEsquire "It's ok she doesn't have to go" is FRYING ME

  • Lisa @TheOnlyLisaRhea I think it's too much. Drop her off and pick her up. Know the start and end time of the movie. Tag along? No. Also, I didn't read that message as another mother asking. That is the friend asking. Kailee was just kicked out of the friend group.

  • PhD Biomedical Engineering... ❤ @SmOoChEs_Mwah The MOVIES my god. At 13, that was a big part of my childhood! Even my strict parents allowed that! "She doesn't have to go", eventually she won't be invited to anything. Don't wipe her tears and tell her "she doesn't need friends"

  • elizabeth @cobavines She is THIRTEEN. If she was 16 or 17, yes this would be crazy overbearing. What are they doing at just 13 they don't want the mom to see? She's too young to be totally unsupervised. I don't think this is too much at all. They're babies.

  • Quail Comrade @ComradeQuail Helicopter parenting is just the default now. And people wonder why so many kids are anxious and socially incapable.

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  • Ashley Reese @offbeatorbit You just don't always want your mom hanging out with you and your friends! This is aggressively normal! I can't imagine my mom hovering didn't ever play date and outing I had in 7th grade.

  • Liz @LizzyLaurie This is how you end up with an adult who can't order a coffee on their own.

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    A woman orders coffee on her own because her mom let her learn to order her own food when she was a kid.

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  • Great Value Beyoncé @tieshatwo It's really the way it was said LMAO. "I have to stay to watch y'all" you're not gunna take away the freedom that MY mom gave me

  • The REAL Suburban Mom @ItsMrsPlugg I think too much is not replying with “hello hun, please have your mom text me" and then not responding until you hear from a parent.

  • Dodger Drea♡ @urfavedreaa my mom did this and i legit had no friends. i wouldn't even be able to walk down the st to hang out in HIGH SCHOOL mind you.

  • TMom of Krills + @MomKrill If you're going to be strict about "no phones" you need to make sure you're smoothly facilitating your child's social life as well. Your child will be a pariah if their friends have to ask your permission to hang out and you essentially ruin any attempts they make to hang out.

  • Washed Gamer @RealWashedGamer IF you want to be this person, how you do it is that you go to the movies with them but you go see a different movie instead. Give them the theater to themselves but you can still 'be around'

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