Learner driver continues sucking thumb throughout driving lesson, parents get annoyed when instructor tells them she has to stop: 'She needs both hands on the wheel'

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Operating any kind of vehicle means prioritizing safety over comfort.

We all know by now that driving can be a perilous pursuit, often because drivers get careless and are more interested in things other than focusing their eyes on the road. You need a license to drive a car for a very good reason, because there are a lot of different factors that you have to be able to coordinate before you can be trusted to drive safely. It's a serious matter.

As a result, those learning to drive are usually swiftly made aware of any weaknesses they may have in their approach to sitting in the driver's seat. It is necessary if they want to pass the test and continue driving in a way that is safe for everybody. Failure to pay attention to these will not only stop them from getting a license, but it may well make them a liability behind the wheel whenever they take a lesson or a test. There are many reasons that driving is seen as a teenage rite of passage, and one of those is that it is supposed to show that somebody has the maturity and awareness to be trusted with a car.

  • A male driving instructor holding a clipboard instructs a teenage female learner driver in a vehicle

    A male driving instructor holding a clipboard instructs a teenage female learner driver in a vehicle

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  • In this story, a driving instructor struggled to teach one of his students due to her habit of sucking her thumb. When they met, and throughout her first lesson, she continued with the habit. She stopped only temporarily when he informed her that she needed two hands on the wheel and that this was not an appropriate time.

    It was such a big issue that he felt the need to inform her parents about it after the lesson. They were unsurprised and claimed that it was a habit she would grow out of. He wasn't sure if he had overstepped in his response.

  • Am I wrong for telling a student she can’t be sucking her thumb while driving and bringing it up to her parents?

    I'm a driving instructor and recently had a lesson that left me unsure if I handled things the right way.

  • Before the lesson even started, the student walked up to me with her thumb in her mouth, took it out, and then immediately shook my hand with that same hand. That already caught me off guard, but I didn't say anything at the time.

  • During the lesson, she kept her thumb in her mouth almost the entire time, even while talking to me. It made it hard to understand her, and more importantly, she was often steering with one hand because of it. At that

  • point I felt like it was a safety issue, so I told her she needs both hands on the wheel and full attention on driving and that she can't be doing that during lessons.

  • She didn't argue, but she kept going back to it anyway.

  • After the lesson, I talked to her parents about it because I felt like it was something that could affect her ability to drive safely. They didn't seem surprised and said she's done it for years when she's nervous and that they've tried to get her to stop. One of them kind of brushed it off and said she'll grow out of it.

  • Now I'm wondering if I overstepped by bringing it up or if I was right to treat it as a safety concern.

  • A male driving instructor shakes hands with a teenage female student while they are inside a vehicle

    A male driving instructor shakes hands with a teenage female student while they are inside a vehicle 

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  •  she won't be able to pass her exam if she doesn't have 2 hands on the wheel. She needs to stop sucking her thumb or stop taking driving lessons.

  • Ribeye_steak 1987 Ugh and she touches stuff with her wet thumb and sticks it back in. Just gross NTA

  • PinkGymGirlie She's not gonna grow out of a habit if she's driving age, NTA at all

  • Suz9006 Within your right as an instructor to tell her she must keep both hands in the wheel. It doesn't matter if she is sucking her thumb, picking her nose or playing with her hair.

  • Fluid-Platypus- That kid's parents failed her. She'll grow out of it?? Maybe if she was like 2yo but this is presumably at least a teenager, near adult. Shaking your hand with her sucking thumb is gross for the both of you.

  • SummitJunkie7 NTA - just focus on the actual - safety issue that she needs both hands on the wheel. She won't pass her driving test that way, so if it's a habit she is really struggling to break, paying for driving lessons is a waste until she can get a handle on this.

  • PS just because someone holds out their hand to you, doesn't mean you are obligated to shake it. For future reference.

  • Conscious_Pass_1615 The parents have done her a huge disservice by not taking this seriously.

  • TararaBoomDA She's taking driving lessons, so I assume she's at least 15 or 16 years old. If she was going to grow out of sucking her thumb, she would have done it at least 12 years ago. Her parents are just deluding themselves.

  • NTA. This is a safety concern, and if she can't keep her thumb out of her mouth while she's behind the wheel of an automobile, perhaps she shouldn't be taking your course.

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