In-laws snub woman's cooking at every family potluck, she refuses to bring anything to future gatherings: 'Every time the whole dessert ended up in the trash'

The protagonist of this story has decided exactly this after she continually faced some strange behavior when attending her husband's family's potlucks. As they were a very large family, most of their get-togethers involved cooking like this, and everybody brought something. 

Trying to fit in, the woman had brought along home-cooked desserts that ended up being ignored every time by every single member of the family. She then switched to beverages, which nobody was willing to touch. Hurt and confused, she felt like she had to give up making a contribution whenever she and her husband attended these celebrations. She wanted to know if she was in the wrong.