Boyfriend refuses to marry his fiancé until she pays the 6 years worth of taxes she hasn't filed: 'Her wages are garnished.'

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    An engaged couple who are not going to get married until she figures out her tax debt. 

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  • Am I overreacting? I won’t legally marry my partner until she pays her taxes.

    I have been with my fiancé for 5 years. She has been successful in her career and has been lucky enough to be hired (with significant equity) at a startup that took off.

  • When we started our relationship, I was trying to get a small business off the ground and was struggling financially. For two years, I think I took home $30,000 per year. I gave that up and transitioned into tech

  • partially for myself, but mainly for her and the lifestyle expectations this relationship comes with. I don't have a ton of savings and I have finally myself out of the hole put myself in financially, moving to LA and doing a

  • The Hollywood sign at sunset

    Los Angeles is an incredibly difficult city to live in if you're only making $30K per year

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  • boot camp early in our relationship. To be clear, I'm thankful with where I am at now career-wise. I wouldn't trade it for what I had before.

  • I learned 3 years ago that she hadn't paid taxes in at least 4 years, which has now become 6+ years. I asked her to get that figured out for a while, but backed off over a year ago

  • after it became a major rift and realized she wasn't going to do anything about it. The government is now garnishing her wages.

  • We are set to get married early next year. I am worried that the government will come after me (once we are married) unless she takes care of this. I, as an individual, cannot take on the amount of debt that

  • she probably owes and cannot afford to have my wages garnished. She says she wants me to help her and that I am hanging this over her head. I have connected

  • her to advisors and she has found a few on her own. She's met with two in the past two years and still done nothing. I told her that I will not legally marry her until she sorts this out. Am I overreacting?

  •  When I say pay, I really mean FILE. She does have pay deducted out of her paycheck from her w2 job. But it's standard and she is in the 30%+ tax bracket. I'm certain she

  • owes money still. She has the money to pay it off. It's not about the fact that she has debt at this point, it's the avoidance.

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    A W2 form, which she should've used to file her taxes over the past six years. 

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  • k_leetayl i think you know you're not

  • Mysterious-Oil-9619 OP When I type it out, I feel strongly that I am not. But she has a really convincing way of making me feel like I am unreasonable, or that I am moving the goal posts for the things she wants out of her life.

  • Chumptopia A good friend of mine ended up losing HER house that she had before she married a guy who didn't pay his taxes. Don't do it. The IRS is ruthless.

  • Dixieland_Insanity NOR I didn't know my late husband had federal student loan debt until we had been married for 3 years and the IRS was going to keep our entire tax refund. Every year going forward, I had to file an injured spouse form and accept whatever the IRS determined was my portion of the tax refund.

  • The form kept me out of legal trouble but it still cost me. I had 3 children and he had none. Money I would have received through child tax credits was cut by half. Even though it was technically my refund for my kids, since he could claim them as dependents, half of what I should have received for them went towards his debt. This was the money I used for school expenses, clothes, eye glasses, dentist, etc. This took money directly from my kids that I had always used for their needs.

  • Do not marry her until the debt is fully resolved. With her wages being garnished, the IRS has already decided what she owes. She isn't doing anything to help herself or this situation by ignoring it. It isn't going to go away. Please be smart about this. You're seeing that she will avoid dealing with major problems regardless of the consequences. You don't want her consequences to become yours as well.

  • Mysterious-Oil-9619 OP She also like to remind me that "all of my friend's husbands take care of the accounting."

  • inspiringlyCrazy Yeah it sounds like she's going to make HER debt, YOUR debt

  • brattygio Love can survive anything, but marrying someone who keeps avoiding a problem this serious will make you scared for consequences that aren't your to own. NOR.

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