Is it all your fault if something doesn't go to plan?
It can be hard not to take the blame for something when things go wrong. If you're the kind of person who keeps yourself up at night thinking about all the things you've done wrong, then you might take on a lot of unnecessary blame. You might beat yourself up over stuff you don't need to. But it can be hard to alleviate oneself of that burden. You take so much on, and you need some second opinions to make sure you're in the right. That's what happened here, to one young woman who had a lot on her plate.
Nobody wants to feel like they're not welcome somewhere. We want to feel like we're being accepted into the community of our choosing, and that the people within that are going to have our backs. Especially if you take an interest in a particular field of study. Maybe there is a particular field, subject, or hobby that you really want to get into, and that comes with being part of a community. You want to learn from people, share in their company, and be a part of something. This is a reasonable desire. You want to feel like you're part of something that matters to you, and that you get to enjoy it with the people in your life. But that's not what happened here. This person was pushed out of a community, and then blamed when it call came crashing down.
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