30-year-old berates friend for giving his leftover $80 wagyu steak to a homeless man after his birthday dinner: 'He says I ruined the vibe of his birthday by bringing up poverty.'

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  • Senior beggar male desperately looking at empty street looking for money

    A homeless man sits on a bench, hungry for something to eat.

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  • Am I wrong for ruining my friend's birthday by giving a homeless man his leftover steak?

    I was out for a fancy dinner for my friend Mark's 30th birthday. Mark ordered a massive $80 wagyu steak but only hate half because he wasn't feeling it.

  • Wagyu steak and vegetables cooking on a grill

    A Wagyu Cross Angus steak with mushrooms, tomatoes, green onions, and peppers on the side.

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  • He boxed it up to go. Walking to the car, we passed a man sitting on the sidewalk who looked exhausted and hungry.

  • I asked Mark if he was actually going to eat the leftovers since he usually forgets them in the fridge.

  • There's nothing more wasteful than spending $80 on a piece of meat and throwing it away because it's a day or two old. If you're going to take a doggie bag home from a restaurant, you really have to commit to it! Either you hold a wet mini cardboard box in the car for 20 minutes because you hate food waste, or you leave your uneaten food at the restaurant, where it can receive a proper burial. You shouldn't have gotten your food's hopes up that it might actually be eaten, only to give it a pit stop in your fridge on its way to the garbage chute. That's downright shameful.

  • He shrugged and said, probably not. I asked, can I give it to him? Mark said fine, whatever, so I handed the box to the man.

  • The guy was so happy he almost cried. Now Mark is furious. He says I ruined the vibe of his birthday by bringing up poverty and I should have minded my own business and let him throw it away later.

  • He's not even mad that he didn't get the chance to eat the steak. I would understand if he felt pressured to give his steak away against his will in the moment. If he really wanted to eat it and someone asked, "Is it okay if I give it away?" he might have felt guilty saying no, even if he wanted to. But this guy wanted to be the one to throw away the leftovers instead of giving them to someone who'd truly appreciate them. Who wants chores like this? Again, why didn't he forego the doggy bag entirely? Why does the acknowledgment of poverty ruin his birthday? This is one strange fellow.

  • A man sitting at a table, talking to a woman

    A man looks angrily at his friend after she gave his leftovers to a hungry homeless man.

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  • AITJ for being a performative nice person?

  • Feeling_Fill_4277 He said fine, whatever that's permission he doesn't get to retroactively attach conditions.

  • Exciting_Base_6305 giving food to someone hungry is universally good. don't feel guilty

  • Fantastic-Force2621 he was okay with wasting it but not okay with helping someone that's the real issue here

  • Excellent_Basil_2710 you literally helped someone in need. Mark's anger is absurd

  • Far-Possession 1583 the only vibe that changed is that he had to confront something uncomfortable for 10 seconds

  • Southern WomenRock The birthday boy needs to grow up and learn to say what he means. If he wanted to keep the steak, he gave you the wrong answer.

  • Awkward_Animal2361 Imagine being 30 years old and having a meltdown because your leftovers did something productive with their lives. Mark needs a hobby and maybe a nap. If he's that pressed, tell him you'll Venmo him $5 for the three bites of potato he also left behind.

  • Sable-Muse You can't say "whatever" and then act like there were strings attached the whole time.

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