Daughter takes her mom's dream vacation to Scotland with her mom's least favorite sister after being excluded from family trips and used as a house sitter, sends her daily photos from the trip

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  • After being left out of multiple family trips, I went on my mom's dream vacation to Scotland

    My mom is constantly taking trips with my sister, her husband, and their kids. I'm

  • always the one they ask to watch their house and animals while they're gone. I have

  • always felt left out of family vacations and that my mom prefers my sister over me.

  • I recently saved up enough money to take a trip of my own. My mom has always wanted to

  • go to Scotland, it's like a life dream for her. I decided that I was going to take my own vacation to

  • Scotland and for a companion, I chose my aunt who is my mom's least

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  • Taking the aunt was the real stroke of genius here, specifically the aunt that the mother argues with constantly, the one she has apparently spent years being jealous of for having a better lifestyle. Bringing her along was not just about having a travel companion, it was about assembling the most specifically uncomfortable guest list possible for a trip the mother was already not invited to. Every photo sent home gained an additional layer of meaning the moment the aunt was in the frame.

  • favorite sister and the only family member that supports me. My

  • mom is constantly arguing with my aunt, probably because she's

  • always been jealous of her lifestyle (aunt is very wealthy).

  • Of course my mom begged me to take her instead but I absolutely refused

  • her, stating my reasons (never being included in her trips and using

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  • And then the daily photo updates. Sending pictures every single day to the person who asked to come and was told no is technically just keeping family informed about a trip, and also technically one of the most precise acts of petty justice imaginable. Here is the castle. Here is the countryside. Here is your least favorite sister having the time of her life on your dream vacation that you are seeing through a phone screen from the house you asked me to watch.

  • me as a dog/house sitter). I made sure to send her updates of everywhere I went and sent all my pictures to her daily.

  • Years of being the one who stayed home, managed other people's responsibilities, and watched the family holiday photos roll in from afar and one well-planned trip rebalanced the whole thing. Scotland apparently has a long history of battles. This one just had better scenery.

  • different-take4u Bravo! For putting yourself first and choosing a traveling companion that also shares in the joyfulness of being petty.

  • scooby946 The best revenge is a life well lived.

  • Feral-Sheep That sounds like the perfect response. Don't fall for the BS "I'll include you in future trips". She

  • deliberately created a very toxic dynamic where sister is the "golden child" and you're not. It is something that narcissists often do

  • to their children. Read Stephanie M. Kriesberg's Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers to give you more context. I

  • suspect that she dislikes your aunt because her aunt calls her out on her BS. Lean into your aunt and make sure you are

  • setting up healthy boundaries for yourself and ensuring your mother respects them.

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