Boss mandates a virtual Happy Hour with remote employees every Friday at 4 PM: 'It is not even remotely optional.'

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    The boss hosts a mandatory virtual happy hour that all of his employees hate with a fiery passion.

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  • My job's mandatory virtual happy hours are the absolute worst part of my week.

    I have been working remotely for about four years now and mostly I love the freedom but my current manager is totally obsessed with "team bonding" initiatives. Every

  • Friday at 4 PM we have this mandatory virtual happy hour where everyone is expected to join a Zoom call with a drink and chat about their weekend plans or play some awkward online icebreaker games. It is supposed to be

  • this great way for us to decompress together but it actually does the exact opposite for me because I just want to finish my last few reports and log off so I can actually start my real life.

  • Instead I have to sit there staring at a screen full of people I barely interact with during the week trying to act like I am having a blast while my actual work is just sitting there piling up.

  • The worst part is that it is not even remotely optional because if you miss it more than once a month you get a friendly but firm message from HR asking if everything is okay with your "engagement" levels. I usually

  • end up having to work an extra hour on Friday evening or even late at night just to catch up on the tasks I could have finished if I wasnt busy pretending to enjoy a virtual cocktail with my department. It feels like such a forced and performative way to build a culture and honestly it just makes me feel more

  • disconnected from everyone. would much rather just have that hour to myself so I can go for a run or start prep for dinner instead of being stuck in front of a camera. Does anyone else have to deal with this kind of forced fun or is my company just really bad at realizing that remote workers value their time more than fake socialization.

  • Choozhunter Nothing's more annoying than being forced to have fun. Scheduling stuff like that an hour before the workday ends feels kinda disrespectful.

  • sprague_drawer It's not about culture, they don't trust their employees on Friday afternoons so they have an end of day on camera roll call to make sure nobody ducked out early

  • Reality_dolphin_98 My employer just doesn't fight it. We celebrate Fridays by not bothering each other after lunch and not questioning where anyone is if they aren't. responding. We also take 'summer Fridays' and get to cut out at 1PM on every Friday from May- September. Our company is extremely successful and productive and every colleague of mine I genuinely respect and think is a really hard worker, I also think they leave early every Friday

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    Happy employee leaves the office early on a Friday because she got all of her work done throughout the week.

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  • N3onThicket OP My manager once made us all wear "fun hats" for the call and I have never felt more like an unpaid extra in a bad corporate comedy.

  • A designer woman in Christmas hat is working on laptop with blank screen in office

    Employee tolerates wearing a funny hat during a virtual meeting.

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  • Arch-NotTaken I call it toxic positivity and way too many managers are using it and oozing it

  • capntail And why are some managers like that? I have to sit on a call with a sales team manager who speaks in corporate mission and purpose statementese and makes it a point to say that all her team is on camera - as if to point out to those of us who aren't should be and no one does, but I digress. What happens to people tho enter management is there some brainwashing that happens, are they paid extra for being so cheerleader over the top, do they need help?

  • bushman4 Just prep dinner on camera... And when it's over, log off for the week and be done. If someone complains something isn't done, just say that 39 hours a week is just shy of what's required to be 100% done and leave it at that.

  • Sassycats22 Maybe I'm in the wrong, idk. I've always been politely outspoken with leaders. Do you have a 1x1 with your manager? Maybe make a suggestion of hey, I think these are great but Fridays we're all de d and trying to get things wrapped up for the week before the weekend. Could we move these to bi weekly or monthly? Could we change the day of the week, maybe Monday? Obviously feel it out but I'm not one to stay quiet on cr p that doesn't work. But I always make a suggestion on how to fix

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